Close Menu
  • Support Us
  • Login
  • Newsletter
  • News
  • Features
  • Interviews
  • Reviews
    • Video Games
      • Previews
      • PC
      • PS5
      • Xbox Series X/S
      • Nintendo Switch
      • Xbox One
      • PS4
      • Tabletop
    • Film
    • TV
    • Anime
    • Comics
      • BOOM! Studios
      • Dark Horse Comics
      • DC Comics
      • IDW Publishing
      • Image Comics
      • Indie Comics
      • Marvel Comics
      • Oni-Lion Forge
      • Valiant Comics
      • Vault Comics
  • Podcast
  • More
    • Event Coverage
    • BWT Recommends
    • RSS Feeds
Facebook X (Twitter) Bluesky Instagram RSS
Support Us
But Why Tho?
RSS Facebook X (Twitter) Bluesky YouTube Instagram
Trending:
  • Features
    Overwatch Season 5

    ‘Overwatch Season 5: A Grim Doctrine’ Is A Highlight Amid A Great Year

    10/10/2026
    Hate Week CFB 2027 BUT WHY THO 1

    Dear EA Sports, You Gotta Put Horns Down In The Game

    10/09/2026
    Wuthering Waves 3.7 Hsin Resonator State

    ‘Wuthering Waves’ 3.7 Storytells Best With Its Side Characters

    10/03/2026
    KPop Demon Hunters x Secret Lair BUT WHY THO

    Is ‘KPop Demon Hunters’ Magic’s Next Universe Beyond? It Should Be

    09/30/2026
    Best of SCAD AnimationFest 2026 But Why Tho

    SCAD AnimationFest 2026: The Best Things We Saw

    09/28/2026
  • Netflix
  • blizzcon
  • Game Previews
  • Sports
  • TCG
  • tiff
But Why Tho?
Home » Film » REVIEW: ‘Holidate’ is a Relatable and Raunchy Start to Holiday Rom-Coms

REVIEW: ‘Holidate’ is a Relatable and Raunchy Start to Holiday Rom-Coms

Kate SánchezBy Kate Sánchez11/07/20204 Mins ReadUpdated:12/28/2023
Share Bluesky Facebook Twitter Reddit Copy Link
Follow Us
Add as Preferred on Google Flipboard Bluesky
Holidate
Share
Bluesky Twitter Facebook Copy Link Reddit Pinterest

It’s November and that means ’tis the season for Mariah Carey and holiday-centric romantic comedies. Netflix has been rising as a new staple for those who are fans of the genre and with movies like Holidate, they’re showing why. Holidate, a Netflix Original, is directed by John Whitesell and written by Tiffany Paulsen. It is a rom-com for every single holiday that stars Emma Roberts, Luke Bracey, and Kristin Chenoweth.

In Holidate, Sloane (Emma Roberts) and Jackson (Luke Bracey) hate the holidays. They constantly find themselves single, sitting at the kids’ table, or stuck with awkward dates. But when these two strangers meet one particularly bad Christmas, they make a pact to be each other’s “holidate” for every festive occasion throughout the next year. Inspired by her aunt who brings a new man to every holiday family gathering, Sloane and Jackson become each other’s security nets for bad holidays spent alone or with first dates that turn out to be a little obsessive. With a mutual disdain for the holidays, and assuring themselves that they have no romantic interest in the other, they make the perfect team. However, as a year of absurd celebrations come to an end, Sloane and Jackson find that sharing everything they hate may just prove to be something they unexpectedly love.

Get BWT in your inbox!

Subscribe to our weekly newsletter and get the latest and greated in entertainment coverage.
Click Here

Get BWT in your inbox!

Subscribe to our weekly newsletter and get the latest and greated in entertainment coverage.
Click Here

Holidate is a color-by-numbers romantic comedy that could be boring in its predictability but succeeds for two reasons. The first reason is that at its heart, it is a holiday rom-com for people who hate holidays. Movies like The Christmas Prince or any of the variety of Hallmark Christmas movie offerings, or even Last Christmas, are films that focus on the atmosphere of the holidays and for those who love them.

On the other hand, Holidate is about two scrooges who just want to make it through the holidays, and that’s what makes their story so endearing, even if predictable. Additionally, when they say a date for all holidays they mean every holiday. From July 4th, Thanksgiving, and Mother’s Day to Easter, we get the chance to see how Sloane and Jackson grow in their friendship, deal with Sloane’s family, and of course, get to the point where they finally begin to develop.

Holidate

Another reason that Holidate succeeds is because of the chemistry between Roberts and Bracey. From their meet-cute in the mall, the scene in which they meet for the first time under hilarious circumstances, to a drunken Cinco de Mayo, a Dirty Dancing moment, and a July 4th accident Sloane and Jackson are a lead couple that is fun to watch. While the two of them unpack their respective baggage, we get the chance to see a romance bloom from a strong foundation of friendship.

While the two dance on the “will they won’t they” line that runs through nearly rom-com about strangers, they never do so in a way that casts their friendship to the side. As we watch them move through humorous moments that help them bond, we see elements of When Harry Met Sally. We see the two of them doing more than just fall in love, we see them grow as people and help each other grow. The two support each other emotionally, learn who each other are, and when the time comes to confront their feelings they of course fall apart before coming back together.

The set design for the holiday sequences and Sloane’s wardrobe are two elements that stand out. While the film does showcase the most stereotypical of holiday celebrations, the ones that happen in bars like St. Patrick’s Day and Cinco de Mayo genuinely capture the atmosphere in all the things that make you eye-roll in a humorous way that makes them feel real. Each holiday feels like it’s been pulled from celebration stories we tell with friends and it makes the film all the more relatable. Additionally, while Sloane is well-dressed, every item of clothing she wears is something you feel you can find which makes her a rom-com heroine that honestly feels more like an actual woman than the fashionable fairy most female leads in the genre become.

One of the other elements that both offer elements of difference and eye-rolling is the raunchy humor that happens throughout Holidate. Now, there are moments that show why an R-rated rom-com is just plain fun, but there are other moments, like with Sloane’s aunt, where it just feels uncomfortable. However, Holidate is a great start to the season of holiday rom-coms. It’s relatable, it’s cute, and it’s raunchy. It’s not a masterpiece but it is just a damn good start to Christmas – which apparently begins November 1st.

Holidate is available for streaming exclusively on Netflix.

Holidate
  • 6/10
    Rating - 6/10
6/10

TL;DR

Holidate is a great start to holiday rom-coms. It’s relatable, it’s cute, and it’s raunchy. It’s not a masterpiece but it is just a damn good start to Christmas – which apparently begins November 1st.

Share. Bluesky Facebook Twitter Copy Link Pinterest LinkedIn WhatsApp Reddit
Previous ArticleREVIEW: ‘Jujutsu Kaisen,’ Episode 6 – “After Rain”
Next Article REVIEW: ‘Transformers,’ Issue #24
Kate Sánchez
  • Website
  • X (Twitter)
  • Instagram

Kate Sanchez is Co-Founder and EIC of But Why Tho? She covers video games, film, TV, and anime. Kate is known for championing international media, animation, and media that tells stories from underrepresented perspectives. Kate is also a member of the Austin Film Critics Association and Hollywood Creative Alliance. As a freelance writer, she has bylines at MMORPG.com, IGN, and Game Informer.

Related Posts

Ben Affleck in Animals
6.5

REVIEW: ‘Animals’ Is A Grim Look At American Politics

10/10/2026
Other Mommy
5.0

REVIEW: ‘Other Mommy’ Swaps Intimate Chills For Bloated CGI

10/10/2026
John Cena in Matchbox
3.0

REVIEW: ‘Matchbox: The Movie’ Crashes Into The IP Doldrums

10/08/2026
Jeremy Strong as Mark Zuckerberg in The Social Reckoning
4.0

REVIEW: ‘The Social Reckoning’ Is A Complete Trainwreck

10/07/2026
Less of a Stranger But Why Tho
4.5

REVIEW: ‘Less Of A Stranger’ Isn’t Much Of Anything

10/07/2026
Kiana Madeira in Beware Boiúna
7.0

REVIEW: ‘Beware Boiúna’ Is More Than A Giant Snake Movie

10/06/2026

Get BWT in your inbox!

Subscribe to our weekly newsletter and get the latest and greated in entertainment coverage.
Click Here
TRENDING POSTS
Take Charge of My Heart episode still from Netflix
3.0
TV

REVIEW: ‘Take Charge Of My Heart’ Wastes Its Charming Leads

By Kate Sánchez10/09/2026Updated:10/09/2026

Take Charge of My Heart starts out fun and silly, but winds up being an overstuffed mess of tropes that never truly work together.

still from Steel Ball Run Episode 4
8.0
Anime

REVIEW: ‘Steel Ball Run: JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure’ Episode 4 — “The Devil’s Palm”

By vanessa maki10/09/2026Updated:10/10/2026

Steel Ball Run Episode 4 is even more focused on the action than Episode 3, which stokes a fire in the folks who love having their pulse pound.

Clive Barker's Hellraiser: Revival gameplay screenshot from Saber Interactivw Interviews

How Hellraiser: Revival Hopes To Deliver Significance To Its Sexuality And Violence

By Henry Stenhouse10/09/2026

Sex and the pursuit of pleasure is at the forefront of so much of Hellraiser: Revival, we spoke with the developers on making it matter.

Ben Affleck in Animals
6.5
Film

REVIEW: ‘Animals’ Is A Grim Look At American Politics

By Mike BC10/10/2026

Animals puts a unique commentary on a tired movie trope and gives us phenomenal messaging, but an unoriginal story to deliver it.

But Why Tho?
RSS X (Twitter) Bluesky YouTube Facebook Instagram Pinterest Twitch
  • CONTACT US
  • ABOUT US
  • PRIVACY POLICY
  • SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER
  • Review Score Guide
Sometimes we include links to online retail stores. If you click on one and make a purchase we may receive a small contribution.
Written Content is Copyright © 2026 But Why Tho? A Geek Community

Type above and press Enter to search. Press Esc to cancel.

But Why Tho Logo

Support Us!

We're able to keep making content thanks to readers like YOU!
Support independent media today with
Click Here