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REVIEW: ‘One Day at a Time,’ Season 4, Episode 3 – “Boundaries”

Nicolas SotoBy Nicolas Soto04/08/20204 Mins ReadUpdated:12/23/2023
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The third episode of One Day at a Time‘s fourth season, titled “Boundaries,” premiered on Tuesday night. In the previous episode, the Alvarez family has dinner with Nora (Raquel Justice), Alex’s (Marcel Ruiz) new girlfriend, so they can get to know her better. The dinner seems to be going fine until the dinner check comes in. Penelope (Justina Machado) is shocked that the dinner was more expensive than she had planned and complains to the manager. Alex, feeling embarrassed, confronts his mom about dinner and tells her that she doesn’t spend enough money on herself. Schneider (Todd Grinnell) offers to help Penelope find an appropriate way for her to spend money. Meanwhile, Elena (Isabella Gomez) struggles to get to an Overwatch tournament since she has to drive her family around town.

In “Boundaries,” everyone but Penelope decides to go out for the night. Alex comes back home early because he forgot his phone and accidentally catches his mom in a compromising position. Penelope talks about what happened in her support group and hopes to get advice on what to say to Alex. Unable to find the advice she’s looking for, Penelope decides to talk about what happened with her son. She tries to talk with Alex about healthy human sexuality, but he’s too embarrassed to be talking about this and demands boundaries. Meanwhile, Lydia (Rita Moreno) scolds Penelope about what happened with Alex.

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Since season three, I’ve noticed that Alex has been given more prominent storylines. He’s never really been my favorite character on the show, so I was never bothered by him being a side character for the first two seasons. Part of his having a smaller role might have been the actor’s age or even Ruiz’s acting abilities. However, with Alex getting a bigger role, I’ve greatly appreciated his character. Many could relate to his storyline in this episode: the need for personal boundaries when it comes to certain situations. I’ll be interested to see what other storylines his character is given.

Boundaries - One Day At A Time Season 4 Episode 3

Speaking of boundaries, this might be one of the most interesting themes that the show has tackled. It’s normal for teens to want boundaries when it comes to certain situations, like the one that Alex goes through in this episode. However, it’s also understandable that Penelope always wants to know what’s going on in her son’s life. It’s a case where it’s difficult to pick a side that makes the most sense. However, Lydia definitely took things to the extreme by judging Penelope’s parenting skills. Including three different points of view on the significance of what happened offers a deeper perspective on the Alvarez family’s life.

I’ve talked about the episode’s relatability because of the main plot, but I couldn’t help but relate to it in a different manner. The constant talk about boundaries in a Latinx family is something that hit home for me. Growing up, I came to realize that everyone in my family knew about each other’s business. Seeing the Alvarez family talk about boundaries and whether they’re needed is something that my family sometimes brings up. I was taken back to those situations, which was rather interesting to look back on. I never thought that an episode of One Day at a Time would ever bring up those memories again. It was rather great to look back on some of those instances.

One Day at a Time Season 4 Episode 3 gives Alex a more prominent role in the series since it made me care more about his character. I wouldn’t mind more episodes being centered around his character, especially since he introduced his girlfriend to his family in last week’s episode. I also found the theme of boundaries rather interesting, which led to the whole family being involved in the discussion. These are the sort of episodes that I enjoy the most.

One Day at a Time Season 4 is available on iTunes.

One Day at a Time, Season 4, Episode 2 - Boundaries
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I really enjoyed watching “Boundaries,” the third episode of One Day at a Time’s fourth season. I’m glad that Alex is being given a more prominent role in the series since it made me care more about his character. I wouldn’t mind more episodes being centered around his character, especially since he introduced his girlfriend to his family in last week’s episode.

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Nicolas Soto

Nicolas is a pop culture critic, focusing primarily on film, tv. anime, and manga. He has a Bachelor of Arts degree in English Literature from San Francisco State University, which shapes the way he analyzes his work. Twitter and Instagram: @brainstormer609

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